When Realization Hits....

ahhh.....the moment that you realize that you are MUCH happier without some people in your life!!  I have come to the conclusion that I couldnt be any happier that I have very few family left in my life.  We have who we want and need....anyone else is a bonus.  I REFUSE to FORCE someone to be in my life or my childrens lives.  If you dont want to be there, dont be!  It is your loss, not mine!!  My kids are smart, healthy, cute, well taken care of....etc.  They dont need the drama and stupidity that some people want to drag them in to!  I WONT let that happen!  I will NOT go out of my way to contact someone if they make no effort in return.  If you want to talk.see my kids....by all means, you know how to call, Skype, or write a letter....go for it!  I also will NOT reschedule my plans just so you can "MAYBE" get online to skype.  I have better shit to do than sit around and wait when you wont even be there.  I also will not tell my kids that you will be calling them just in case you dont.  I WILL NOT allow my children to be hurt or cry for any reason especially because someone broke a promise to them.  They are MY KIDS and I will make the rules that I want for them.  If you dont like that, too damn bad!  Kick rocks and move on....